My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

my friend is like a sister to me. there are times when she is nice and other times....not so much. sometimes she says that my hair looks really good one day or that she really likes my outfit, but she also trashes me in front of other people. like she calls me flat chested infront of my friends, sometimes boys, and even my MOM!! and I was born with a natural swayback and she is constantly pushing against my stomach and upper back rtying to "straighten me out" and i tell her to stop but she is like "i got rid of mine so you can get rid of yours" and i really want to tell her off, i mean i REALLY do, but she lives with her grandma because her mom is too freakin weird, her 18 year old sister has a baby, but she was pregnant wen she was 17 and her and her boyfriend are not even married, and she cusses so much, and i dont want to hurt her because she is a soft person. she cried when, in band, she got switched off the snare part on a piece for a timpani part, and she still cries about it!!!

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

You sound drained. Find a new... M A T U R E friend.

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

wow she sounds pathetic. she is like a sister to you? huh?!

with friends like this, why would you need enemies?

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

Slowly begin to give space to her before you go off on her. Distance will help you to find a way away from her.

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

if she was your real friend then she wouldnt try to change you and as a true friend you need to tell her that . you say she is sensitive but not when it comes to your feelings so you need to be honest and firm and just let her no you love her and value her frienship but it hurts your feelings when she says those hurtful things and if she cant understand that then she wasnt your real friend to begain with. explain to her that you would never take her flaw and exploit it for fun infront of other people and her reaction should be understanding if she really wants ur friendship .

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

Take good things only from nice friends

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

TO GET STRAIGHT TO THE POINT-----IF SHE IS REALLY AND TRULY YOUR FRIEND SHE WOULDN'T CALL YOU OUT IN FRONT OF PEOPLE NOR WOULD SHE INSULT YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. IT SEEMS THAT SHE LIKES TO BRING YOU DOWN IN ORDER TO MAKE HERSELF FEEL BETTER. JUST TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL IF SHE IS YOUR FRIEND SHE WILL ACCEPT WHAT YOU SAID BUT IF SHE GETS UPSET THEN YOU MAY WANT TO RE-EVALUATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

You should tell her that you don't like to be bost around any more because you are not little you are an adult and I don't need friends like you cause it may cause my entire life just being boasted from you. And girl you don't really need anyone like that because if she was your friend she wouldn't be doing that she would just give you tips to do it yourself.

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

if you keep holding it in. it might all come out but not the way you wanted. so if you wanna tell it to her nicely then you should tell her soon. right now to her, your vulnerable, if you keep taking her insults then she's gonna think that your never gonna tell her off. don't make yourself look weak. cuz a real friend wouldn't do that to their friends.

My friend keeps trying to change me!!! what do I do?!?

Do same thing to her